When our younger son Nathan died, we didn’t know how we would make it through each day. Establishing a new sense of normalcy seemed impossible. We know how uncertain and private the pain is. We will not tell you to put the loss behind you or that you ought to move on. What we will do is help you to begin constructing a new sense of reality, which, over time, will incorporate the living memory of your loved one into your daily life so that you may feel an ongoing connection with them and see their continued contribution to the world through your very own actions.